You are absolutely heartbroken after the breakup. You can’t believe you and your ex attacked each other so viciously! They said such terrible things to each other, things they know they didn’t mean. You have a big problem now. Your ex doesn’t want to talk to you since the breakup. What are you doing now? There are so many things you should say to your ex!
There are a few reasons why your ex doesn’t want to talk to you anymore. However, the terrible way they broke up is the main reason. All those nasty things they said to each other really hurt both of them and also created a lot of anger.
You can’t expect your ex to just ignore what happened between the two of you. Just like you, your ex can’t believe that you were so horrible to each other. This has also left your ex very confused. You see, even though your ex knows that he still loves you, there is a battle inside your ex: should he get back together with you or not?
The other reason is that your ex feels really bad for being so mean to you and feels really guilty right now. He/she did not mean to tell you those things and he/she is not sure whether to contact you or not. Your ex doesn’t know what your reaction will be and he’s a little scared to try it right now.
Your ex doesn’t want to talk to you anymore, but over time this feeling will change. You just need to be patient and allow your ex to get over the resentment and pain that the breakup caused them, that’s all. You and your ex need to take things slow now. Both are not sure of the true feelings of the other and need to discover little by little what awaits them.
So in the meantime, try to get over your bad feelings as quickly as possible by spending quality time with your family. They probably didn’t see much of you while you and your ex were together, and they’ll be happy to have you around. They know that your ex doesn’t want to talk to you anymore and he will do anything to make you happy.
