If your intuition tells you that your husband has started an adulterous affair, you should do a little research work. Women’s intuition is a very powerful thing. When our husband begins to walk away, even a little, we begin to wonder what is going on. If you suspect that your husband has a girlfriend, you should start paying more attention to certain things.
One of the easiest ways to determine if your husband has a girlfriend has to do with your car. In many families it is the wife who tends to drive the family car the most while her husband has his own vehicle. If you think your husband may be cheating, take a few minutes to check his car. The first thing to do is check the passenger seat for stubborn hairs. If you’ve been spending time with your new friend in the car, there’s likely some long brown, black, or blonde hair on the headrest. If the hair color is different from yours and he hasn’t mentioned taking a friend or family member anywhere, your husband may have another woman in his life. Also try keeping track of your typical commute mileage. If you don’t run a lot of errands in the car, but the mileage is higher each week than it should be, you could be driving to meet your girlfriend.
If you are responsible for laundry duties part or all of the time, you may be able to use this to your advantage when it comes to determining if your husband has a girlfriend. Check their shirts for signs of unruly makeup. Although we’ve all heard of lipstick on the neck, many women also leave stains of eyeshadow, mascara, or blush on a man’s shirt if they hug. In addition to looking at the shirt above smelling it. Any hint of a feminine fragrance and you know something is wrong.
Many men become adept at hiding their emotions when they are having an affair. Many also go cheeky when contacting their lover, including sending her an email from her home computer or even talking to her on her cell phone late at night when they think you’re asleep. If you think your husband has a girlfriend, try sneaking up on him when he’s using his computer or cell phone. There is no point trying to read what you are writing over your shoulder or lean in close to hear what you are saying, but pay attention to your body language. If you are typing on your computer and you have a big smile on your face, it may be a sign that you are emailing or IMing your lover. The same applies when you are talking on the phone. If you speak quietly but smile widely, this is usually not a positive sign.
