Guys don’t realize that if they spend a lot of time stimulating breast foreplay, their woman may have a breast orgasm. Most men and women use some form of breast massage for foreplay and pleasure. Breast massage is used to firm the breasts and to check for any health issues, it can also be used for sexual arousal. Many men forget to pay close attention to the chest during sex.
Breast massage orgasms, while common to some women, have not received much attention in books or magazines. Studies have shown that massaging the female breasts will increase the change in a woman who has an orgasm.
The breast is the positive pole of a woman’s sexuality. The positive pole of a man is his penis. The key in foreplay is to stimulate the positive pole of a woman so that her heart opens. Then she will be open so that her negative pole, which is her vulva, gets wet.
Men run to the vulva without spending enough time for a woman to really get aroused. Studies show that this takes 20 minutes. Women have erectile tissue around the vulva that fills with blood. This takes at least 20 minutes.
Most women are NEVER fully aroused.
Most men make love in less than 15 minutes. This means that your lover is never fully aroused EVER! Men then wonder why their partner rejects sex after a year or so. Then the man discovers that she is having an affair with a man who really takes her time.
SEX KEY: Make foreplay last 30 minutes!
Adding a breast massage is a wonderful way to turn a woman on. I suggest not starting with this area. Start on the less hot parts of her lover’s body, like kissing her and caressing her all over. The neck is a highly erotic area for most women. Kissing fingers and toes is an area that most men miss.
How to start a breast massage
One way to start the massage is to simply place the palm of your hand on the heart area. Just hold on and let the warmth of your hand stimulate your lover.
When a woman doesn’t have a lover, she can have a breast massage orgasm in the privacy of her own home. One can start by gently pressing on her breast from the inside of the nipple to the outside. The pressure should not be fast or strong. Be very sensual and gentle. Touch yourself for pleasure with slow and soft caresses.
Breast massage stimulation strokes
A caress that I love to do is a lifting action. I support the chest with one hand and gently lift the chest. Sometimes I do this stroke for 5 minutes. Look into your lover’s eyes as you make this stroke. See if she can connect the heart energy through her eyes. Then try to knead the brisket from it. Then, for added pleasure, rub your breasts with the palm of your hand in a clockwise and counterclockwise direction.
The use of massage oil can take massage to a new level of sensuality and pleasure. Make sure you have warm massage oil.
A sensitive woman can have a breast massage orgasm in about 15 to 20 minutes of breast stimulation. Once she has had an orgasm, she will very much want you to penetrate her. Make sure you don’t come too fast. Many women can come again and again. Most men stop too soon. Really make intercourse last 30 minutes or even hours. She will find that if she does this, her lover will want a lot more sex each week, sometimes a lot more than she can handle.
