If your boyfriend decided to break up with you, it was because his attraction to you was at its lowest point. It doesn’t matter why he broke up with you. The bottom line is that your coefficient of attraction (AQ) as far as he’s concerned is too low and for you to get him to want you to come back, you need to increase your AQ a hundredfold and I’ll show you how. .
If right after the breakup you made your ex-boyfriend feel like he was for the best since he cut his bread by calling him and begging him to take you back and stalk him day and night, in addition to looking like someone who should be sedated, you seemed even less attractive to him. your ex. Every time he picked up the phone and acted desperate, his AQ dropped a little more.
At this point, there is no way your ex can see you as the attractive and vibrant woman that you are. What else can you do then?
Well, let’s start with what you know. Something killed or at least made a dent in your ex’s attraction to you. What was it? This is something you will have to determine yourself, but once you find the answer, with a little help you will know exactly how to proceed.
Although this is a very difficult time for you, and I understand it, you have to find a way to be more attractive in the eyes of your ex.
So how do you do this?
You do this by giving your ex boyfriend “social proof” that others want you. He must think that other guys find you attractive. Whether other guys are really chasing you or not doesn’t matter right now. All you have to do is make your ex think that they are not your only option.
The moment your ex believes that he is your only option, you have become less attractive in his eyes and this will continue to cause you problems and push your ex boyfriend away until you change the situation to YOUR advantage.
The first thing you have to do is make yourself look and feel more attractive in any way possible. You will not only look attractive to others, but also to your ex if you put yourself in your ex’s line of sight.
This is what I want you to do. Go out there and get a new look or do something that’s guaranteed to get their attention and allow them to see you in a different light. Maybe you want to change your hairstyle or start dressing differently. The key here, however, is that you still need to make sure you are comfortable in your own skin.
Any changes you make should improve it and improve your overall confidence level. If your confidence is high enough, it becomes infinitely more attractive. When you become more attractive, you automatically attract other potential suitors, as well as your ex.
The next thing I want you to do is go out and be in your ex’s line of sight. Your main goal here is to get out there and have fun with your new level of confidence and your new look.
While you’re outside and having fun, you look and feel good, hang out with friends and have a really good time, maybe even eventually going to the same places your ex will surely be, but you DO NOT care in any way if he talks. to you or not, guess what … now you become more attractive because you are happy, comfortable, confident but yet you seem unattainable and this is the position you want to be in!
Getting to the point I described above is not easy at all, but I can show you how to get there so that you are more attractive in the eyes of your ex boyfriend. That’s what will get me to pay attention to you again! Click the link below to visit my blog and join in the fun!
