It seems as if some people have all the luck. Everyone knows or has been surrounded by lucky people. It seems like everything is going his way. They never have an unlucky moment or an unhappy day. The world seems to collapse at the feet of these lucky ones. Or is this really the case?
The fact is that there are no lucky people who are just born that way. There is no lucky spirit that follows only a select few people. Or it may seem that way, but these people are lucky by design, not by accident. There are things that you do to create your realities. First of all, they understand that the opportunity does not arise by chance. They have to make it happen.
Here are some other points to keep in mind when it comes to lucky people:
First, there is a saying that luck happens when preparation meets opportunity. This is a very true fact. Lucky people know that they have to prepare for the opportunities they want in life. They do research on one thing. They think of ways to make things happen. They do a lot of planning, work and goal setting. Then, when opportunities present themselves to them, they will be ready to take advantage of them. Now, when a person they know is in a position to help them achieve their goals, they don’t have to waste time preparing, because they’re ready to claim their destinies.
Lucky people are optimists. They don’t go around looking at their belly and saying “woe is me.” It’s not that lucky people are always happy and cheerful. But they know how to overcome setbacks and disappointments. They make mistakes like everyone else. But they learn to learn from their mistakes. They seek the lessons of life. They understand that everything, every person, and every entity in life can give them the opportunity to learn and grow, if only they stick to growth.
This leads to another point. They understand the saying “If it’s going to be, it’s up to me.” Lucky people know that life very rarely gives us a handout. They have learned to have their radars ready for opportunities and seize them. They know how to take advantage of opportunities and relationships. They understand that they are in control of the outcomes of their lives. That’s why when strangers look at lucky people, it can seem like everything is going their way. But what people don’t understand is that things turn out the way they want, because they have made plans and goals for things to turn out the way they want. And when things don’t go the way the lucky people would like, then they learn how to go back to the drawing board, revamp their plans, and then try again. They don’t let “unlucky” times and events stop them.
The bottom line is that they are lucky because they live life by design and not by accident.