Everyone wants to know the best way to handle a breakup, but there is only one major factor that prevents me from saying the best way to handle a breakup. Everyone has a different situation that needs to be dealt with differently, but we can break this down to two different types of people. People who want and should get back together with their ex and people who want but shouldn’t get back together with their ex. Now you are asking how do I know if I should be with my ex or not? Well, this is a tricky part and requires a bit of work on your part, but it is also very difficult to do on your own. Don’t try to figure this out on your own, it won’t work, most people after a breakup are not prepared to handle a breakup properly and that is why they can never get their ex back. Right now more than ever, after a breakup, you can’t think emotionally, you have to think logically, which I know is next to impossible, so keep reading to find out what can help you.
Now all of that is fine and fancy, but you still want to know the best way to handle a breakup. First of all, if you realize that you don’t want your ex back but you still hurt inside, you have to get to the factor that is hurting you and confront it. My best advice is to schedule a meeting with your ex and let him know that you’re okay with the breakup, see that things are going nowhere, and wish him a happy life. It sounds simple and you’re probably wondering how this would help, but if you can stand there and say this without looking back, you’ll be surprised how well this can help.
If you’re clear-headed after all that and you’re still telling yourself that you want your ex back, some things you don’t want to do is not start apologizing for every little thing you did wrong in your relationship, in fact don’t. . You even apologize for anything. Don’t start rambling about how badly you want your ex back, he’s just there and let him know you’re still around and not planning on going anywhere. There are only two ways to mend your broken heart, one is to get back with your ex, second is to move on and forget about your ex. This sounds harsh, but it’s true and if you really want to get your ex back, keep reading.
