Affirmations of will are not like other self-talk affirmations. They are unique and can greatly help improve mental health and behavior.
These affirmations are not designed to help you get what you selfishly want. Nor are they illusory statements that have nothing to do with current reality. Nothing good can come from a person walking around repeating sentences that are not true.
Affirmations of Will are designed to help a person become less selfish, less controlling, and more in reality about themselves and others. They will be of no value to anyone who does not want to change in a loving way.
They will help to strengthen a person’s positive determination for correct action at the subconscious level of his will.
They are worded in such a way as to bypass the mind and mental concepts and belief systems.
Affirmations of will help to disconnect us from the subconscious storehouse of selfish and controlled ideas, opinions, beliefs, values, principles and judgments on which we have been basing our selfish and controlling choices and our selfish lifestyle.
Our most important wrong decisions originate from our personal subconscious; the subconscious is our “selfish command center.”
When a person repeats an Affirmation of Will, he is consciously sending a message to his subconscious command center. If the energy inherent in the statement is sincere, it means that the person is considering changing the way they have been choosing and behaving previously.
In effect, the person is choosing to “deprogram” himself out of love and right action by deenergizing or denying his personal selfish subconscious programming.
If repeated regularly with sincerity, Affirmations of Will will help reinforce a person’s commitment and ability to consciously stay on the right path, or to return to a course of love change after they have made the decision to deviate.
Caution, if repeated sincerely, these statements will likely bring back strong, previously suppressed, negative childhood thoughts, feelings, or memories. It is important not to represent those feelings or react to negative memories.
Stick with the particular statement and keep repeating it while trying to see who and what the negative thoughts, feelings, or memories are related to.
Repeating Affirmations of Will can help you access vitally important personal facts and lead to an empowering perception of yourself.
If you find yourself avoiding certain claims, it is a good bet that you voluntarily resist giving up control in that area. Falling asleep while repeating a statement, getting irritated, or being “too busy” for them are common reaction clues.
Try saying these thirteen basic statements. Take time to repeat them whenever possible. If you mean it without sincerity, at best it will be a breathing exercise or a waste of time.
Basic affirmations of the will
1. “Now I am ready to be totally ready.”
The essential state of the selfish person is “stubbornness.” Therefore, a basic shift at the central level from stubbornness to “willingness” is necessary if love changes are to occur. Being willing to be fully willing may seem strangely redundant, but it is meant to reinforce our intention and position us to be psychologically capable of accurately perceiving true righteousness.
2. “Now I am ready to be totally ready to love perfectly.”
We all have numerous ideas about what love and loving action is. Those ideas prevent a person from expressing and experiencing true love. The word “perfectly” prevents one from mentally visualizing what love means. It discourages forming or acting on personal ideas about love and loving behavior, and opens one to perceive the reality of love.
3. “Now I am ready to be totally ready to accept everything totally.”
“Total acceptance” is a crucial psychological position in order to see truth and reality. Total acceptance is related to seeing the “whole” and the “actuality.”
When a person is unwilling to “fully accept everything” about what they are perceiving, it is likely that that person is not accurately seeing the truth or the real reality. The same phenomenon applies to attempts to see the truth about ourselves, another person, a situation, relationship, or the truth of what is correct at a given moment.
4. “Now I am willing to be fully willing to take full responsibility for my decisions.”
Every selfish person, to one degree or another, refuses to be responsible for wrong personal decisions and the resulting negative feelings, situations, relationships and circumstances. That is why guilt is so prevalent. The willingness to take full responsibility for our decisions is necessary to accurately see truth, reality, and righteousness. The willingness to take full responsibility opens a person to see important aspects of their personal subconscious.
The more responsible a person chooses to be, the more aware they will become. Elevated consciousness helps a person make decisions based on reality and righteousness. Those choices benefit everyone.
5. “Now I am willing to be totally willing to see the real truth.”
The willingness to see the real truth is vital if we want to see what the right action is and to be able to express true love to others. When we control selfishly, we deny, flee, and distort the truth. We make decisions based on controlled lies, rationalizations and illusions.
If we are to change in a truly loving way, we must maintain a sincere disposition to see negative truths about ourselves and our past choices, and then change the negative, heartless, dishonest, wrong, and irresponsible about ourselves.
6. “Now I am ready to be totally willing to give up all my ideas.”
Every selfish person literally chooses to live off selfishly controlled ideas. Each of us has accumulated a “subconscious storehouse of ideas” that we use to subconsciously direct and orchestrate selfish behavior. We use selfish ideas to trigger and regulate selfish reactions, maintain unloving attitudes, and generate negative feelings. These selfish ideas controlled to help us get what we want and avoid what we don’t want. They include our opinions, beliefs, values, principles, and judgments. The problem is that they inhibit our ability to see truth and reality, see right action, and live responsibly in loving ways.
7. “Now I am willing to be totally willing to be totally wrong.”
Being willing to be wrong is necessary if a person is ever willing to make decisions to change in a loving way.
This statement helps counteract certain ideas and beliefs that a person steadfastly refuses to give up and is wrong about.
Love change requires that a person make decisions based solely on what they feel and know is really correct.
After making what the person assumes to be a correct choice, they may have been selfishly deceiving themselves, therefore it is important to remain open to seeing vital clues that will confirm or deny the correctness of that choice.
If internal or external clues make it obvious that the choice was actually a selfish, unloving, or correct choice, the person must be willing to reverse course and keep searching to discover what the truly correct choice is in the particular situation.
8. “Now I am willing to be totally willing to want nothing for myself or anyone else.”
Who can imagine what it would be like to live one day without wanting something?
Most of us believe that wanting is “natural.” It may seem “necessary”, “natural”, even “appropriate”, especially when it comes to food, water, sex, and body comfort.
It seems like it’s okay to crave, feel a need, have a desire, and want food when hungry, water when thirsty, warmth when cold, and sexual interaction. However, a person can physically desire the essentials of life without falling into a “selfish desire.”
Wanting, from anyone, for anyone, or for any reason, is actually selfish and destructive. Options for wanting to introduce a negative and unnecessary twist to a person’s daily experience.
Wanting is not natural; It comes from a selfish intention and desire. It generates feelings of lack and need. It is a refusal to give and act correctly.
Wanting, needing, and getting are the reasons why a person becomes closed, cautious, insincere, and unreal.
9. “Now I am ready to be totally ready to lose everything, to have nothing, to be nobody and to be totally alone, if necessary.”
Loving change is a process that a person must be prepared to go through alone, if necessary.
This affirmation helps a person to stay free from commitments and to stay focused on what they know to be true, right, loving, and lovingly responsible. It helps us free ourselves and keep us free from negative deals that turn into concession traps. It will help deal with other people’s reactions to our rights choices that go against selfishness.
10. “I am now willing to be totally willing to put an end to my selfishness and my selfish control efforts.”
Ending personal selfishness is likely to be unrealistic in a person’s life. However, to the extent that a person stops being selfish, it will benefit them or anyone with whom they interact.
Efforts to reduce personal selfishness will produce continual positive personal transformation and enhance a person’s inner experience in truly meaningful, positive, and loving ways.
11. “I am now ready to be totally willing to stop respecting my negative subconscious parenting agreements.”
Every selfish person is honoring negative parental agreements that they made before they were born. They made with the father of a basic selfish disposition similar to that of the person (angry or fearful).
That parent became the child’s “favored parent,” the parent whom they chose to be unconsciously loyal, take sides, and behave the way that parent wanted the child to behave. In effect, each of us has made our favorite father our “personal god.”
It is not possible to make positive changes centrally as long as a person respects their negative agreements.
12. “Now I am willing to be totally willing to stop reacting selfishly to the wrong decisions of others.”
Not reacting selfishly is by far the greatest human challenge of all. Selfish reactions are never out of our control, no matter how “uncontrollable” they may seem, so failing to react is always possible willfully enough.
Hopefully, these affirmations will help you disengage from selfish, subconscious, destructive, and self-destructive intentions, agreements, patterns, and reactions.
