It is not difficult to attract and seduce women when you know how. Knowledge is power and with the right knowledge you will have the power to seduce women literally at your whim. Just take the time to learn the correct way to do it and then put it into practice. While it may seem intimidating at first, with a little practice it will soon become second nature.
There are three basic steps to attracting and seducing women. Master these three easy steps and you will become a regular gamer, the envy of all your friends. There will always be a beautiful woman or two on your arm.
Step 1. Get closer to her
I can’t begin to tell you how important the right approach is. Did you know that you could waste your chances with her even before you open your mouth if you get too close to her? It’s true. Use the wrong approach and you’ll go home alone, guaranteed.
But if you use the right approach, you can put your foot in the door and be much more likely to have a happy ending.
There are two main things to remember when approaching her. The first is your appearance and the second is body language.
You should always dress for the occasion and according to the type of woman you want to attract. If you’re not sure what your appearance tells women about you, then ask someone you feel comfortable talking to. Follow their advice if you trust them. It could make a big difference.
Body language is extremely important. You can make or break the deal. Correct body language tells her that you are a confident man who gets what he wants. This is a HUGE change for women. There are certain gestures and movements that will draw her towards you and, conversely, there are gestures and movements that will draw her away from you. Proper body language is one of the main ingredients in attracting and seducing women.
Avoid repellent body language. Don’t move quickly and jerkily, put your hands in your pockets, fold your arms, or smile ridiculously (this makes you look needy). When you talk to her, don’t stare at her, don’t look directly at her, lean toward her or get too close and invade her personal space.
Use engaging body language. Move slowly, smoothly, and confidently. Keep your head up and your shoulders back. Whenever you enter a room, enter as if you owned the place. Keep an open posture. Stretch out, take up space. This portrays confidence and women will absolutely eat it. When you talk to her, look her directly in the eye when you want to make a comment, but don’t constantly look at her. Lean your body toward hers and don’t look directly at her. Lean away from her instead of toward her and try to appear only half interested in her.
You should always be aware of what you are doing with your hands. Don’t shake them uselessly. Instead, use gestures that are engaging. For example, if the conversation allows, take your hand, bring it to your chest, and then move it toward her. This will emphasize your point and create a connection to her at the same time.
Proper body language will lead to a good conversation and ultimately a happy ending.
I’ll talk about steps 2 and 3 in the next few articles, so keep an eye out for them. In the meantime, check out some resources to learn more about proper body language to attract and seduce women.