You can only achieve your goals if you learn to trust yourself. Trust starts with you. When you trust yourself, you will mean what you say and you will say what you mean. This will allow other people to develop trust in you.
To trust yourself, you need commitment. You have to develop your mental energy and remain firm in your beliefs and principles. Don’t allow yourself to feel defeated when you fail at something you’ve tried to achieve. See failure as feedback and try to get back on your feet. Accept the fact that you won’t always win. That is the law of nature. There will be times when there will be others who could do better than you. The important thing is to trust yourself so that you know that you have given your best.
As Arthur S. Adams once said: “Good character is that quality which makes one dependent on being observed or not, which makes one truthful when it suits one to be a little less sincere, which makes one courageous when faced with great obstacles, which endows one with the firmness of wise self-discipline”.
Successful entrepreneurs are always dependent because they take full responsibility for their actions. They know that what they are today and what they will be tomorrow depends solely on themselves, since it is the result of their own choices and decisions. They are proactive people, who set goals for themselves, walk the extra mile to reach them and trust, mainly, in their own resources and abilities.
Being responsible and taking responsibility is what will make you stand out from the rest. Whatever the situation, you can only feel a sense of personal fulfillment if you learn to take responsibility for what you do in life. High achievers know that they are 100% responsible for what happens to them. They don’t blame anyone else. “There are two main choices in life: accept conditions as they exist or accept responsibility for changing them,” said Denis Waitley.
Finally, let me quote what Brian Tracy said about one of the qualities of the top 1% of successful people: “They see themselves as the president of their own personal services corporation. The most important people in our society have an attitude of self-employed”. . 100% of us are self-employed. We are presidents of our own personal services corporation. You work for yourself. The biggest mistake we can make is to think that we work for someone else. We work for ourselves. The person who signs our paycheck can change; our jobs may change, but we are always the same. We are the only constant: we are always self-employed. The fact is, this is not optional, it is mandatory: you are the president of your own company, you are the president of your own career, of your own life, of your own finances, of your own body, of your own family, of your own health. You are totally responsible. We are responsible. Nobody will. do it for us. It is the most liberating and exhilarating thought of all, to think that you are the president of your own life.”