Basically, there are three types of relationships:
That’s. There are relationships for emotional gratification, sexual gratification, and financial gratification. If you are in a relationship with a person, it will be for at least one of these three reasons. Problems arise when the two parties have different relationship agendas. A woman may be dating a man because he is paying her bills, and he may be dating her strictly for sex. Or a woman might be dating a guy she’s emotionally attached to, while he’s dating her because she gives him a couple bucks every now and then. In the ideal relationship, the two people you are dating are on the same page emotionally, sexually, and financially. If there is a deficiency in any of these areas and the deficiency has not been corrected, the relationship will be temporary.
So ladies, when you start dating a man, you must first be honest (with yourself especially) about what your real agenda is. If you are dating a man strictly for his financial contributions, acknowledge it. Don’t try to justify your schedule by making a superficial relationship with the person and deluding yourself into believing that you can learn to appreciate other qualities in the person. You also need to find out what the other person’s real agenda is. Don’t let them tell you.
In any game, you should at least play good defense until you are absolutely sure that the other person is willing to be on the same team as you. When you meet a person for the first time, you cannot know if they are with you or against you. And if someone has plans to forget about you, or to get what they can from you without reciprocating, they will surely not tell you from the beginning. More than 90 percent of all communication is non-verbal. Therefore, it is up to you to closely observe and listen to a person’s non-verbal language (and not your own hopes and expectations) so that you can find out where they are coming from.