Is Your Marriage Going To Divorce Court? If you get back in the driver’s seat of your marriage now and awaken your wife’s sex drive, saving your marriage will be simpler than you think.
What you have to do is change all your negative thoughts into positive ones. If you dominate your mind, you will dominate your life and, in turn, you will become the master of your relationship. You can change your habits, behaviors, activities, beliefs, and ideas and enjoy the strong, passionate marriage or relationship you deserve.
To quote Henry Ford, he said, “Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right either way.” Are you a CAN or a CAN’T? Can you change enough to save your marriage? And not only save her, but become the owner of your relationship and fill it with love, romance, happiness and lots of sex.
The solution to saving your marriage is actually quite simple. It all relates to leadership in marriage. When a woman is led by a charismatic, fun, and loving leader, she will do anything to make him happy. You instinctively see that leadership is everything to a woman’s sex drive. I know that thought is the opposite of what you have been taught. They have taught him that men and women should be 100% equal. In business and society, that is absolutely true. But in your marriage someone has to be the leader and that someone has to be you.
The secret is to retrain your brain and reactivate the hunter mode of the caveman in you. Get back in the driver’s seat of your marriage waking up the leader you used to be so that your wife’s sex drive feels like she’s in the presence of a true leader and her attraction to you will skyrocket. She will love and adore you unconditionally and you yourself will grow stronger and sexier than ever.
And why well can you ask? Well, our sexuality is still largely governed by our Stone Age genetics, where a male’s sex drive and hunting abilities had to be strong enough to ensure the survival of the human species. If you speak in reproductive terms, men are simply sperm donors and providers, and women are programmed as breeders and breeders. Cavemen were leaders, and that’s what you must be too.
The origins of the sex drive are both biological and psychological. The biological arm includes the brain, nervous system, hormones, and physical well-being. In reality, the brain is the largest sex organ of all. The sex drive has its origin in the most primitive part of the brain, the limbic system and the hypothalamus.
The psychological arm is based on our feelings and thoughts; lifestyle and environment; and about the quality of the relationship. It is controlled by the desire centers in the brain that control sexual desire and arousal. These desire centers are controlled by hormones. The male hormone testosterone, which affects both men and women, plays a particularly important role. Desire centers send out “sexual currents” that control the sex drive. This “sexual electricity” varies from day to day and from person to person, so it is to be expected that everyone has different levels of desire and this will fluctuate from day to day depending on the circumstances. Impaired physical or emotional well-being reduces sexual interest.
Men are expected to have a higher sex drive than women because their testosterone level is often 10 to 20 times higher. However, it doesn’t always work this way, and sometimes couples have different levels of sexual desire. Libido problems are common when one partner has a higher sex drive than the other. Unfortunately, this is a common reason for divorce and when you are working to save your marriage, it is essential to keep this in mind. True love is not always a bed of roses and a perfect match in all areas of life (sexual, emotional, intellectual and spiritual) is only for fairy tales or romance novels.
Sexual desire means feeling horny or having an interest in sexual activity. Sexual arousal means being turned on and physically ready to have sex. The higher your sex drive, the easier arousal will be. Sexual desire emanates from love and trust in a close relationship and is a sign of good health and well-being. Factors that affect sex drive are:
– Neurological (the brain and nervous system)
– Hormonal (in particular testosterone)
– Personal welfare
– Physical well-being
– Well-being of the relationship
If any of these factors are affected by any other condition, such as illness or depression, then your desire will decrease and you will have less desire. If all the factors are in good health, you will think about sex more often and that is the key to saving your marriage. To improve your sex drive, it is important to focus on the positives and unplug the negatives about yourself, your partner, your relationship, and your sex life. To enjoy a happier and healthier sex life, you need to stay fit and healthy, and you need to develop a happy and healthy relationship.
Enhancers increase sexual desire, inhibitors decrease it. Find out what turns your partner on or off, and then maximize enhancers and minimize inhibitors. Use enhancers to improve your sex life in order to save your marriage. Do you remember the well-known nursery rhyme?
“Sugar and spices and all the pretty things, that’s what girls are made of. Slugs, snails and puppy tails, that’s what boys are made of.”
Men like porn, while women crave romance. Typical enhancers for girls include romantic gestures such as flowers, phone calls, intimacy, walks on the beach, and holding hands. Typical enhancers for a man include nudity, pornography, erotica, and variation in lovemaking techniques. What happens in your relationship during the day will ultimately decide the quality of your sex life at night. Use enhancers to get your libido back in sync. Good love is the key to good sex and good sex is the key to saving your marriage.
Intimacy is the complete intertwining and sharing of body and mind. The other gets to know your deepest and darkest secrets and the essence of who you really are. With this comes a high level of trust and if it is broken, it will cause severe damage to the relationship. With intimacy comes commitment, a conscious choice to enter into a totally exclusive relationship. If you want fulfillment in a relationship, you need commitment. Rebuild trust and commitment as a step toward saving your marriage. Intimacy, trust, and commitment are a must if you want to save your marriage.
The most satisfying relationships grow whether they are friends or lovers, because if the passion fades, the relationship remains strong through the bonds of friendship: play, sports, social, fun, romance and other recreational activities. You can develop intimacy on many levels:
* Emotional * Intellectual * Physical * Family * Recreational * Spiritual * Sexual
All levels are important to a good relationship and the more you do together, the more you will bond, the more secure your relationship will become, and the more likely you are to have a long and happy marriage.
Summing up saving your marriage is easier than you might think: just wake up your wife’s sex drive by getting back in the driver’s seat. Save your marriage by becoming the leader and owner of your relationship. The rest will follow.
