You want your ex boyfriend to feel bad for leaving you, right? Who could blame you? The pain you felt when he told you that he didn’t want to be with you anymore was overwhelming. You felt broken and emotionally abused. Now you feel like he doesn’t care about the time you spent together or how the separation has affected you. It’s time to do something about it. If you just sit idly by waiting for him to realize he made a mistake, he may be waiting forever. You have to be proactive with this and take some steps so that he feels deeply sorry and wants nothing more than to have you back in his arms forever.
Some people around you may think that you are wrong to want to make your ex boyfriend feel bad. This is why you may run into a brick wall if you turn to them for advice. They will tell you that revenge is never a good idea and that the best thing you can do is move on with your life and show him how strong you are. You are going to do all that and you will also attract him back to you. Clearly, it’s a win-win situation, and right now, you should be your first priority.
The first thing you have to do to make him regret the breakup is to make amends. If you still love him that much, chances are good that he left you, right? It doesn’t matter. Either way, you’ll be a better person and tell him you’re sorry about the failed relationship. Please, he doesn’t go into too much detail about this and he doesn’t dare bring a gift as a peace offering. This is a calculated move in his plan to make him regret what happened, so stay the course. A simple and genuine apology is all it takes.
Men are more insightful than we give them credit for. They can know when we love them and when we want them back. Actually, he’s counting on you wanting it. He is waiting for the phone calls when you are crying and begging for another chance. He’s patiently waiting for the long email or letter where you open your heart and tell him you can’t live without him. If you don’t do any of these things, he instantly derails you. He feels punished and lost. He will immediately begin to question your devotion to him and whether or not you really want him back.
The main thing to remember when you want to make your ex boyfriend feel bad about leaving you is to stay focused, emotionless, and unfazed by the breakup. If you seem to move on without missing a beat, he’ll question his own attractiveness. That’s what you want to happen because once he feels like you don’t want him anymore, he’ll regret losing you.
