Having been rejected by a man, it is natural for you to feel vindictive. You are human, and also a woman! You have every right to feel hurt, but you must also rise from the ashes and show him what he is missing.
Be better than ever.
Don’t just look pretty, look extremely gorgeous! Wear your fanciest clothes and get the guys to line up. When you look your best, make sure this guy sees you so he can tell you apart.
Ignore its obvious attraction.
He can throw admiring glances at you, but make it seem like you’re not looking at him. This is sure to mystify him and it will soon become his goal to chase you down and guess what turns you on the most. Always be one step ahead of him.
Let all his friends approve of you.
And you can only get their approval if you become a popular figure in your area. If people naturally crowd around you, then this guy and his friends are sure to be intrigued as to who’s making waves lately. Don’t be surprised if it will soon be chasing you like a bloodhound.
Hit him with your best shot.
Show him what he threw when he rejected you. This is the time to show off all your assets and talents. Flaunt them all and he will surely admire you for your newfound confidence. Don’t let their rejection destroy the beauty in you.
Learn to forgive.
In order to have a good aura about yourself, you have to make sure to let go of all the bad feelings you still have for the man. He may have rejected you, but you still shouldn’t hold any resentment towards him. If he doesn’t see bitterness, this guy is sure to admire you for your maturity and praise you for it.
Be courteous to him, but don’t go beyond that.
This is not the perfect time to rebuild burned bridges. You can still be friends with the boy without completely returning to his arms. If he ever wants to win you again, make it hard for him to win you this time.
Never lower yourself to the level of the other girl.
If the guy rejected you for another woman, then you shouldn’t even give him a chance to recover. Save some dignity for yourself. Once she realizes that you are so much better than the other woman, she will definitely want to get back to you. Ignore him this time and show him that a million men would compete to have you!